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Noah Otte's avatar

I’m so sorry for all the sexual harassment and political violence you and your fellow gender-critical feminist activists have endured, Kaeley! I’m a social liberal, I’m all for gay marriage, LGBT civil rights, gay adoption, and celebrating Pride Month. But I also believe in women’s rights and that female-only spaces should be protected. We can balance those two things as a society, equal rights and anti-discrimination protections for Trans people and women being protected from biological men encroaching on their spaces and fairness in women’s sports. There is indeed a heavy cost for those who speak publicly against gender ideology. Radical leftists will go after you with a vengeance. You, Kathleen Stock, J.K. Rowling, Julie Bindel, and many others experienced this first hand.

But you’ve done the right thing. Gender presentation can be changed, biological sex can’t. That’s just science! It’s doesn’t make anyone “Transphobic” to acknowledge that gender-affirming care for minors is barbaric, immoral and does irreversible damage to children’s bodies. Nor to point out that Trans folks competing in women’s sports is unfair and dangerous. Nor to say that biological boys don’t belong in girl’s changing rooms or bathrooms. Trans radicals do nothing for Trans people as a whole and are basically terrorists.

They make Transgender people look bad when most just want to live their lives and that’s it and give ammunition to the legitimate transphobes on the right.

Biological men in women’s prisons? No way, Jose! That’s not okay! I call on President Trump and Attorney General Bondi to launch a probe into Trans radicalism in the United States. FBI Director Kash Patel should coordinate with them on that. I also call for legislation to be passed banning gender-affirming care for minors and the closure of clinics that aren’t following the law. I call on the Democratic Party to switch its stance on gender-affirming care for minors and join the GOP in fighting this monstrosity! It’s time for a radical shift in how we view these issues in this country and it has already begun. I’m not a conservative but I don’t need to be to see biological sex matters by the way, there are only two sexes, that’s it.

I suspect Antifa was behind Charlie’s assassination and that his stance on these very issues has something to do with it. Antifa must be declared a terrorist group by the Trump Justice Department. They are every bit as dangerous as the KKK, Neo-Nazis, Islamists, or black separatists. Antifa is a hate group and should be classified as such and is the modern day version of the Weather Underground. As to the Trans Lobby their days are numbered. Their decline has begun which is why they are getting more aggressive, it’s a sign of desperation.

Cathy Eide's avatar

I like and respect your essay. I am so weary of the Democrats stating they aren’t worried about the Trans issue, that’s only 1%. When you hear their math you understand it’s all about the Transgender people and has nothing to do with women. They just don’t understand at all.

I really find it hard to believe sometimes that I spent so many years working in the Democratic Party.

I hope a great investigation into the Trans movement will begin because I believe they will act and they will be violent.

I hope I am wrong, but we have already seen what happens when these poor souls who already feel disconnected are really set loose.

Frank's avatar

"I have long said that whenever gender identity wins, women always lose."

So true and so sad. I remember when they used to test for male genes and hormones in Olympic athletes wanting to participate in womens' events.

As you note, whatever the solution, it seems women always lose. I remember saying during the 70's, "Back in the bad old days, if a man got a young woman pregnant out of wedlock, the family and community would insist that he marry the young lady or run him out of town. Maybe that didn't always result in the best marriages, but now, if a man gets a young lady pregnant out of wedlock and offers to pay for half the abortion, he's considered a Mensch. Is that really better for the woman?"

Dr. Karla Solheim, MD, FACOG's avatar

Wait, what? Why would it be better for a woman not to be able to access abortion if that’s what she wants?

Kaeley Triller Harms's avatar

This post is not about abortion, and I’m not interested in letting the comment section be hijacked by a futile debate on a topic about which we will not agree. Since I entered the works of activism, I’ve been vocally and unapologetically pro-life. I’ve written other pieces on that topic if you’d like to know my thoughts.

Frank's avatar

It's your website, so I will not say no more.

Louise R's avatar

How about a new definition of TERF -- Trans Exclusionary REGULAR feminists!

TurquoiseThyme's avatar

I see the gender transition movement as an intentional attempt to eliminate the genetic predisposition for the autistic spectrum, autistics are very true-false in their thinking which means that high functioning autistics are often the child in the emperor’s new clothes, telling the truth in the face of political pressure. This tendency is a threat to politicians that utilize peer-pressure techniques to get things for their own advantage.

The very sort of people that hated having autistic children in their classroom a generation ago now love bomb them and then maliciously encourage them to sterilize themselves.

Danny’s Essentials's avatar

Well said. I’m more of a conservative. But o believe in free speech.

Brandon Showalter's avatar

Screamin' with ya, Kaeley.

Forward Nebraska's avatar

Thank you

EyesOpen's avatar

Me too: "One of the reasons I take the Charlie Kirk situation personally because I see in him what I have seen so few defend: someone working tirelessly to make it safe for others to speak, even when you don’t agree with every position they hold. And yet, I also feel a profound sense of betrayal at the silence and apathy of Christian friends who know damn well how important this is—and say nothing when they see us harassed, shamed, or attacked on their threads."

And some of my "friends", and even some family have actively undermined me as well feeling righteous as they do.

Steven Brizel's avatar

Gender ideology is Marxist and has as its hold the destruction of the traditional family

RidgeCoyote the Nazirite's avatar

Antifa/trans activists are terrorists and should be designated so and hunted down.

Anne Lemmons's avatar

It should be criminal to physically alter anyone’s body before they are

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Kaeley Triller Harms's avatar

And you, my dear, can shove it where the sun don’t shine.

1. I expressly said that I didn’t know whether the reports had any merit.

2. I hate abortion with the fire of a thousand suns, and I still VEHEMENTLY and vocally opposed the violence against the abortionists.

The fact that you cannot find the human decency to denounce and grieve the assassination of an innocent man tells me all I care to know about you.

Your heart is ugly and bitter and hateful. You are the monster you condemn. And you are done on my page.