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Rafique Tucker's avatar

"Divorced from answers to these really important questions, confusion reigns supreme. I’m a Christian, so it is my deeply held belief that every human alive was intentionally designed by a loving God and with a specific purpose in mind— a purpose no one else could possibly fulfill. We are not an accident. We are here on mission. There’s work specific to our passions and aptitudes that we are expected to champion. And the closer we can get to naming that purpose, the happier and more fruitful our lives will be,"

This is a whole word. Until we know God's purpose fot us, we will never have true peace in our lives, as we'll search for meaning in all the wrong places.

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Crimson's avatar

Honestly the manosphere, tradwives and much more is a reaction to our now very tedious porn culture. Of course there had to be a backlash to the cosmopolitan magazine style pornotrash being pumped out of social media platforms, unbidden at this point. Of course people are going to the political right.

We’re all sick of the sex-positive wokesters with no beliefs or solutions except “ tolerate everything”.

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Kaeley Triller Harms's avatar

Again, this is a false dichotomy. We have more options than bad and worse.

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Brandon Showalter's avatar

This book answers these questions more profoundly than anything I've ever encountered. The hunger for identity, and identity politics more broadly, has its origin in the fracturing of our society and as relational/familial bonds have disintegrated.

"Primal Screams" by Mary Eberstadt: https://www.rutgersuniversitypress.org/templeton-press/primal-screams/9781599475851/

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Kathy Ross's avatar

The essential bonds cannot be held together by human effort alone. We need the power that only God—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit—can provide to maintain and/or rebuild them.

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Brandon Showalter's avatar

Agree entirely. And so would the author. Elsewhere she makes the point that with the decline of faith there is a concurrent decline in family. One kind of leads to the other and feed off each other, basically.

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Margaret Nunley's avatar

What do you mean by loving god? What is it?

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Kaeley Triller Harms's avatar

I’m not sure how to answer this question. I believe we have a Creator who designed us with a purpose, and I believe He loves us and wants relationship with us.

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Kathy Ross's avatar

You may want to read the Gospel of John.

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Kaeley Triller Harms's avatar

Nailed it! I totally see the light now. Thank you for your rousing contribution to this discussion.

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Kaeley Triller Harms's avatar

Bless your heart

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