Damn, girl, you have a remarkable talent for reducing "tough guys" to tears. I so relate to this post. It's a long and painful story, but I was alienated from my father for many years. Thankfully, we reconciled and had a few good years before he died (2019). Now, I'm an aging parent myself (67) watching my own children watch me grow old (we married and had kids late). My dad was a lot like yours... and I am a lot like him. This was in fact one of the most profound blogs you've written. Damnit.
As a person that's doing life without her parents anymore, you are onto gold here. Though I have great memories, and my Mom even got to meet a great grandchild, it all goes too fast. I know this experience, not feeling I had enough time with my parents, has molded the way I try to interact with my adult children and grandchildren. This was a wonderful read, and I am sure it will touch people's hearts. Thank you.
Damn, girl, you have a remarkable talent for reducing "tough guys" to tears. I so relate to this post. It's a long and painful story, but I was alienated from my father for many years. Thankfully, we reconciled and had a few good years before he died (2019). Now, I'm an aging parent myself (67) watching my own children watch me grow old (we married and had kids late). My dad was a lot like yours... and I am a lot like him. This was in fact one of the most profound blogs you've written. Damnit.
This makes me profoundly happy for you all.
Due to "My dad is a consummate storyteller," have you considered video recording of his telling stories or reading stories?
Those recordings will be gold for your children and grandchildren.
As a person that's doing life without her parents anymore, you are onto gold here. Though I have great memories, and my Mom even got to meet a great grandchild, it all goes too fast. I know this experience, not feeling I had enough time with my parents, has molded the way I try to interact with my adult children and grandchildren. This was a wonderful read, and I am sure it will touch people's hearts. Thank you.